Almost there!! I talk for *far* too long about my day, and then throw in some IoT/home networking recommendations…sorry for the length!
Ubiquiti EdgeMax EdgeRouter Lite (my current router, ~$100): https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00CPRVF5K/
Ubiquiti EdgeRouter X (newer version, only $50!): https://www.amazon.com/Ubiquiti-Networks-ER-X-Router/dp/B0144R449W/
Ubiquiti UAP-AC-LR Networks Enterprise Wi-Fi System (Wifi access point for either of the above; ~$100): https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015PRCBBI/